Admittedly, most of us face challenges raising our teens. It can sometimes feel like an exercise in futility-- and parents can become overwhelmed and frustrated.
I found in my own parenting experience, and also in my
practice as a Parent Coach-- that although each of our teens are different
people, there is at least one universal truth with all teens. The teen years
are the years of self-discovery, and it is our job to guide and inspire our teens
to finding their-own best, happy self.
Author Esther Hicks, puts it
best when she says, “When your children are at their happiest, is the time to
affirm who you know them to be.”
Living Happy with your teen is a moment to moment, day-to-day endeavor and not for the faint of heart. I’m just kidding. Living Happy with your teen is about maintaining your sense of humor when you’re in the throes of what may feel like terrible times. I want to remind you of something I know for sure from my own experience-- “This too shall pass.”
But until it does pass-
Have you noticed that just about every subject can turn into a potential argument with your teen?...
Whether you’re asking a question about school, one of their
friends, or simply just wanting to know about their day?
It’s as though, you say something seemingly innocent and
they react defensively. Their reaction may turn into an immediate argument,
sudden rolling of their eyes at you, or a big heavy sigh! Other times it’s the silent treatment. If
their hormones are surging that day, they may even respond by stomping out of
the room and slamming the door.
If you are facing any of these types of issues with your
teen, sit back and take a deep breath, as I walk you through 10 Tips for Living
Happy with Your Teen. Hi, I'm Sharon Ballantine, founder of the Ballantine
Parenting Institute and author of the book, “The Art of Blissful Parenting-
Teaching your children how to follow their internal guidance.”
Now, before I give you those tips, let’s start
with YOU and your intention. Let me
explain. According to Oxford Dictionaries, the definition of intention is “A thing intended; an aim or plan.” And Webster Dictionaries
puts it this way--- “The thing that
you plan to do or achieve; an aim or purpose.” With that in mind, I want you to
be thinking about your intention with your teen.